Kareem Abdul-Jabbar says he ponders why people are so obsessed with Trump that their loyalty is more a compulsive fetish than a healthy choice. His answer"
"There are many answers to that question, and I’ve explored them all. But one of the main ones is the pathological need for a judgmental father figure."
#Trump #tariffs #ToxicMasculinity #destruction
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https://kareem.substack.com/p/trump-tariffs-tank-economy-and-4
"White House Press Secretary Karoline Leavitt mused that 'boys will be boys!' when asked about the increasingly ugly feud between Elon Musk and Trump trade adviser Peter Navarro at Tuesday’s briefing. …
'These are obviously two individuals who have very different views on trade, and on tariffs. Boys will be boys!'"
~ Isaac Schorr
"'and imported millions and millions of illegals to work in construction, manufacturing, landscaping, janitorial services – jobs that used to give men access to the American dream.'”
"Batya Ungar-Sargon reckons Trump’s economic policy is going to fix the 'crisis of masculinity'. On Sunday, Ungar-Sargon told Fox News that the US had 'shipped jobs that gave men who work with their hands for a living, and rely on brawn and physicality, off to other countries'" …
~ Arwa Mahdawi
#Trump #tariffs #ToxicMasculinity #destruction
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https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2025/apr/08/trump-tariffs-masculinity-family-fox-news
A number of commentators today are noting the attempt of the Trump regime and its epigones to spin the tariff madness (and destruction) as boys being boys, a favorite theme of Republicans, since one can hardly blame boys for behaving like boys. Bless their hearts, behaving badly is just what men do after all, Republicans love to inform us.
On this topic, see Media Matters on Fox News' spin of the tariffs as "manly."
#Trump #tariffs #ToxicMasculinity #destruction
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https://www.mediamatters.org/five/fox-news-chyron-trumps-manly-tariffs
Rising from the Ashes: A Love Letter to Self-Respect (4of4)
He wasn’t just unprepared for a relationship; he was fundamentally incapable, yet he allowed me to believe otherwise, leading me down a path paved with false hope.
The past now feels like a raw wound, a landscape scarred with the sharp edges of what could have been. But the dawn has finally broken, casting a harsh light on the truth. The lesson, etched in the deepest part of me, is this: never again will I dim my own vibrant light for someone who prefers the cold, artificial glow of a screen to the warmth of my touch. Never again will I offer my heart to someone who cannot be fully present, unequivocally honest, and wholly mine.
Lesson: Don’t date dismissive avoidants. They’re not worth the emotional toll.
As Evan Hurst notes, Vera Papisova spent a year dating alt-right men to find out what makes them tick (this is so difficult to figure out?) and ended up comculding that on the whole they're “erratic, violent and incapable of managing their emotions." But, get this, "we" are somehow responsible that they're that way, since "we" have pushed them into isolation.
Himpathy much?
#MAGA #Trump #AltRight #masculinity #himpathy #ToxicMasculinity
https://www.wonkette.com/p/overrun-by-feral-cats-tabs-monday
As someone taking the opposite path from the below image:
I navigated it most of my life by constantly and obsessively managing my threat presence. It felt like a constant battle with the toxicity of other men. I had my guard up not because there was some threat of women assaulting me, but because watching their guard go up around me felt like being stabbed in the gut, like a lifeline getting cut off.
It took trauma and ego death for me to really start building an actual community for myself. I had bits and pieces I had gathered carefully and with great effort, but all that toxicity kept me from knowing what to do with it.
Now, even later, transition has been a massive weight lifted. (For those in the closet or eggs cracking: people clocking you doesn't make much difference here, if they put up that anti-creep guard around you they're a bitch anyways)
I feel like I can breathe. Connection is so much more casually there. I can see it in people's eyes, I can be in a crowd of strangers and I feel drastically less alone.
Unfortunately, those years of malnourished pain don't just disappear. I still have all of those threat management patterns, I feel like I'm scarred and sometimes even bleeding from that. There's a caution in me, afraid that people will misinterpret, that this wonderful person I want to make friends with will abruptly shut down on me and then disappear from my life if I relax too much, if I'm too open... I still feel like I'm emotionally walking on tip toes...
Toxic Masculinity Snowflakes
https://youtu.be/sP2Kr5frFiU
"Protecting girls" from trans people:
"Hall “screamed and shouted” at the player “you’re a fucking boy and shouldn’t be playing in a girls side...”.
"After the abused player left the field in tears, her father approached Hall informing him he could not speak that way to his daughter, to which Hall reaffirmed his belief that the abused player was a boy and should not be playing in a girls team."
Actual "grooming" threat: Far-Right Manfluencers Grooming Lost Boys
https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/how-far-right-manfluencers-are-grooming
* Nick Fuentes, Andrew Tate
* rise in domestic abuse/physical violence/terrorism
#TransLivesMatter #TransRights #WomensRights
#HegmonicMasculinity #misogyny #manfluencers #JoeRogan #AndrewTate #NickFuentes #DonaldTrump #ElonMusk #GOP #ToxicMasculinity #paternalism #incel #IMVE
#Trump #fascism #Christofascism #transgenocide
CAVE: collaborate/advocate/vote/educate
Transgenocide: https://mastodon.social/@persagen/114186381298087870
"What could be more masculine and cool than selling out vulnerable communities and women to impress the alpha male?" What indeed!
#techbros #orangeturd #toxicmasculinity
"Tätermachung vs Objektivierung – Die ausgebliebene Emanzipation des Mannes"
Ein philosophischer Artikel über Vorurteile zwischen den Geschlechtern. Darin beschreibe ich die Folgen typischer Verhalten, die Benzin ins Feuer des Patriarchats kippen. Und wie man dem entgehen kann.
https://blog.dominik-dammer.de/tatermachung-vs-objektivierung-die-emanzipation-des-mannes
Eeeewwwwww, #Trump’s comment saying, “We’re gonna have tremendous goodies in the bag for women too” has such creepy dick in a box vibes.