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Little Rae<p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/femboy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>femboy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/sissy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sissy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/smooth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>smooth</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/slim" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>slim</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/hot_body" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hot_body</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/touching" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>touching</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/cock_peek" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cock_peek</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/stockings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stockings</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pink_n_blue" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pink_n_blue</span></a></p>
TonePromo render I did for the fae wings.<br> <br> See in full at <a href="https://zicon.no/milo-and-liloo-with-fae-wings/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://zicon.no/milo-and-liloo-with-fae-wings/</a><br> <br> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/art?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#art</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/fairies?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fairies</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/wingedhumanoid?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#wingedhumanoid</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/outdoors?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#outdoors</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/longhair?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#longhair</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/man?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#man</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/woman?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#woman</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/intimate?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#intimate</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/pointyears?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#pointyears</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/standing?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#standing</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/touching?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#touching</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/DazStudio?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#DazStudio</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/fantasy?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#fantasy</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/promo?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#promo</a> <a href="https://pixelfed.art/discover/tags/rainbow?src=hash" class="u-url hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#rainbow</a>
Gemma Plum<p>Just found <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://pixelfed.social/Ivovanwoerden" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>Ivovanwoerden</span></a></span> here on <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/mastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mastodon</span></a> The fantastic writer and journalist who wrote the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/touching" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>touching</span></a> and <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/inspiring" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>inspiring</span></a> story on which I based the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/graphicnovel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>graphicnovel</span></a> 'The Great Marc Evers - The true story about the good for nothing who became champion'.</p><p>A <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/beautiful" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>beautiful</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/biography" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>biography</span></a> about a boy who was written of when he was two but became a <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/paralymic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>paralymic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/hero" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hero</span></a> ✨</p><p>With colours by the Marvelous Marloes Dekkers.</p><p>We're planning a new book and a new (soul) journey and we'll keep you posted 😁</p>
Best Licker<p>Mia Manarote for ATK Galleria<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pornvideo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pornvideo</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/best" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>best</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/teen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>teen</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/solo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>solo</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/masturbation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>masturbation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fingering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fingering</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pussy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pussy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/shaved" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>shaved</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/tits" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tits</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/brunette" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>brunette</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/touching" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>touching</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/orgasm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>orgasm</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/xxx" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xxx</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nsfw" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nsfw</span></a></p>
Man<p>Can't wait....👅🍆<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/milf" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>milf</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/touching" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>touching</span></a></p>
Bytes Europe<p>‘Cuddle cafes’ in Japan let customers canoodle with or gaze at strangers for US$6 <a href="https://www.byteseu.com/647287/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">byteseu.com/647287/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/ban" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ban</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/bed" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bed</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/business" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>business</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/cafe" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cafe</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/challenges" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>challenges</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/chat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chat</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/colleagues" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>colleagues</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/comfort" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>comfort</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/conversation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>conversation</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/cuddle" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cuddle</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/emotional" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>emotional</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Energy" class="mention hashtag" 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noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>slap</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/SocialIsolation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialIsolation</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/SocialNorms" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialNorms</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/strangers" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>strangers</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/support" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>support</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/survey" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>survey</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Tokyo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Tokyo</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/touching" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>touching</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/waitress" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>waitress</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/YoungPeople" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>YoungPeople</span></a></p>
guyjantic has moved!<p>I grew up Very Religious. And I was in a Very Religious marriage for several years. This particular Very Religion was absolutely NOT OK with masturbation. So much anti-masturbation content. So much thought policing. So much guilt and shame as social control of young men (yes, lots heaped on girls and women, too, and I&#39;m never going to minimize that, but this post is about male <a href="https://c.im/tags/masturbation" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>masturbation</span></a> </p><p>A few things about living in this kind of abstinence-focused <a href="https://c.im/tags/religion" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>religion</span></a></p><p>- Boys &amp; men are still (very) horny (note: no wanking)<br />- Teenagers and young adults are strongly encouraged to date<br />- But no touching<br />- No orgasms</p><p>All truly[1] sexual possibilities are kicked down the road to the pie-in-the-sky <a href="https://c.im/tags/marriage" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>marriage</span></a> you will someday have (this could be its own... book). Your spouse&#39;s body and will and consent will be your only sexual outlet. Forever.</p><p>OK, so you do all that. You don&#39;t have sex. You don&#39;t masturbate. You meet That Special Someone. </p><p>Some stuff about that:</p><p>- You&#39;ve been sexually unsatisfied for about two decades[2]. Yes, this will absolutely affect your marriage decision.</p><p>- <a href="https://c.im/tags/PostNutClarity" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>PostNutClarity</span></a> won&#39;t (can&#39;t) help you make a more thoughtful marriage <a href="https://c.im/tags/decision" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>decision</span></a></p><p>- You and your new spouse will probably[3] fuck like happy bunnies for a while.</p><p>But something will go wrong. There are guaranteed to be <a href="https://c.im/tags/problems" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>problems</span></a> in any marriage and this one had some very sketchy starting parameters (see above, imagine x10,000,000), so there will absolutely be problems. Some will involve sex. All will affect <a href="https://c.im/tags/sex" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>sex</span></a> </p><p>And you still won&#39;t masturbate (or not without shame and possibly religious/social consequences) because it&#39;s still a Big Rule from God. </p><p>There can be no sexual soothing during conflict, and no post-nut clarity to help make decisions. Constant sexual frustration will make the <a href="https://c.im/tags/conflict" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>conflict</span></a> harder to resolve.</p><p>In addition, husbands commonly[4] want more sex than their wives (note: <a href="https://c.im/tags/GenderEssentialism" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>GenderEssentialism</span></a> is the water all of this swims in). Even with small imbalance, one spouse can feel that the other &quot;constantly&quot; wants sex, while the other feels their partner &quot;never&quot; does. For years.</p><p>There&#39;s no masturbation pressure relief valve. The only OK way to orgasm requires your spouse&#39;s active involvement.</p><p>On top of this, girls and women have had sexual shame hammered in even more deeply. The virgin/whore thing happens. Sex = guilt happens.</p><p>Result: resentment, fighting, fear, even coercion[5]. </p><p>I grew up seeing this in spouses: coded conflict language around friends, ubiquitous marital unhappiness. Many ppl (IMO) invested their feelings in kids or religion bc it was less fucked-up than what they felt toward their spouses. </p><p>The <a href="https://c.im/tags/divorce" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>divorce</span></a> rate in my church was lower than average, but I suspect so was marital satisfaction.</p><p>I now believe this system is Very Bad overall (though it has some benefits[6]).<br /> <br />Unlike arguments against <a href="https://c.im/tags/adultery" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>adultery</span></a>, premarital sex, gossiping, theft, etc., moral anti-masturbation arguments can&#39;t (really) be about harming others. They rely on &quot;personal purity,&quot; w/far-reaching consequences (see <a href="https://c.im/tags/PurityCulture" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>PurityCulture</span></a>).</p><p>Discussion of &quot;sexual sins&quot; (Prohibited Touching[7]) is focused nearly 100% on how it affects YOU--your righteousness, your salvation, your filthiness, your future marriage prospects...</p><p>Boys get nearly constant anti-sex, anti-masturbation pressure &amp; messaging. Laudably, it&#39;s about the boy&#39;s actions. Less laudably (bc purity culture), it&#39;s mostly about how the boy&#39;s actions affect *him*.</p><p>A boy gets thousands of lessons &amp; talks about avoiding Prohibited Touching with Girls, but it is rare to find any discussion of possible coercion.</p><p>What if she didn&#39;t want the <a href="https://c.im/tags/touching" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>touching</span></a>? Focus, son; we&#39;re talking about your <a href="https://c.im/tags/soul" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>soul</span></a>.</p><p>Now I&#39;m many years out from that environment. My own Uniquely Fucked-Up Marriage (TM) is in post-religion, maybe-kinda-poly, one-of-us-was-gay-all-along territory. The big conflicts are (I hope) past. We spend a lot of time supporting each other in finding healthier relationship patterns, and moving toward a <a href="https://c.im/tags/divorce" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>divorce</span></a> that will be good for both of us and our kid.</p><p>I should have planned a nice wrap-up but I guess this is it.</p><p>The end.</p><p>---- Footnotes ---<br />[1] &quot;truly sexual&quot; - Repressed religious kids can do an awful lot that is sexual but not Prohibited touching</p><p>[2] Some people end up sexually unsatisfied for more than 2 decades. Some break the rules. Some get married at 17.</p><p>[3] Some newlyweds don&#39;t fuck like rabbits because of other problems: medical issues, consequences of 20 years of sex shame, actually gay, etc.</p><p>[4] Sometimes women want more sex.</p><p>[5] There is an awful lot of coercion at peer, family, &amp; larger system levels (as in all social systems but I don&#39;t like this kind)</p><p>[6] Of course even Fundie Christianity has positives; cultures don&#39;t persist if they don&#39;t do anything for their members</p><p>[7] Technically, it&#39;s not just touching that&#39;s prohibited; you can also sin by thinking sexual thoughts.</p>