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Broadwaybabyto<p>Tomorrow is a gift that the chronically ill never get to receive. When you’re temporarily sick, you know that it’s going to improve. You can rest because you have the knowledge that the next day will be a little bit better. Each day there will be progress until you’re completely ‘fine’ again.</p><p><a href="https://www.disabledginger.com/p/why-are-chronically-ill-people-forced" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">disabledginger.com/p/why-are-c</span><span class="invisible">hronically-ill-people-forced</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/chronicillness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronicillness</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/ableism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ableism</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/eugenics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>eugenics</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disabilityrights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disabilityrights</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/longcovid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>longcovid</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/mecfs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mecfs</span></a></p>
Irish ME/CFS Association<p>Lee is fundraising for ME again. 👏</p><p>Read more including the tragic tale of his late brother Josh who had <a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/severeME" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>severeME</span></a> here <a href="https://awalkforme.com/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">awalkforme.com/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p>People can support his fundraising for us here <a href="https://www.idonate.ie/fundraiser/LeeColligan" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">idonate.ie/fundraiser/LeeColli</span><span class="invisible">gan</span></a><br>or <br>alternatively Action for ME <a href="https://joshcolligan.muchloved.com/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">joshcolligan.muchloved.com/</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.ie/tags/MEcfs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MEcfs</span></a> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/mecfs" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>mecfs</span></a></span></p>
Jules 🍺<p>Really good video on the effects on your life of long covid<br><a href="https://youtu.be/HSRM-mxDK0c?si=JUoqvCw2clR9KxRo" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">youtu.be/HSRM-mxDK0c?si=JUoqvC</span><span class="invisible">w2clR9KxRo</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.me.uk/tags/LongCovid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LongCovid</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.me.uk/tags/covid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>covid</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.me.uk/tags/COVID19" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>COVID19</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.me.uk/tags/mecfs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mecfs</span></a></p>

Es ist hart, den Verfall eines Menschen mitzuerleben, der #MECFS hat. Vergessen der einfachsten Dinge, Sachen fallen herunter, alltägliche Handgriffe misslingen, wohl auf dem Weg zur Demenz. Ein anderer Mensch als der, den ich einst so stark empfunden und bewundert habe. Meine Frau. Und ich habe auch MECFS. Vielleicht habe ich noch einen kleinen Aufschub, aber wahrscheinlich das selbe Schicksal. Auslöser eine Pandemie, die viele nicht mehr wahrhaben wollen. #PostCovid

“I don’t know how you do it! I could never be chronically ill!”

We didn’t get a choice. No one asked our permission. Disability just happens. It can happen to you too.

We cope because we have no choice. We can’t trade our bodies in for new ones. We can’t “try harder” our way out of it.

“Unfortunately most people can’t process the lack of choice in the matter. They genuinely believe that we either want to be this sick, or could get better if we really ‘tried’. They believe they wouldn’t be able to handle what we go through, because they’re convinced they will never NEED to handle it. They’re the exception. Chronic illness won’t happen to them”

disabledginger.com/p/why-are-c

The Disabled Ginger · Why Are Chronically Ill People Forced to Hide Their Pain?By Broadwaybabyto

When I started The Disabled Ginger I sent it to my friends and family … as most of us do.

I was proud that I was finally standing up for disability rights. That I was taking my pain and putting it on the page in an effort to help others. That I had found something that lit a spark inside me.

Unfortunately, many of my friends didn’t feel the same way.

My disabilities are invisible, and I had become very good at hiding them. Apparently that’s what people expected of me, as they didn’t like this “new” version of Kelly.

Almost none of my friends subscribed. What’s worse, many stopped talking to me. Or would only reply in brief texts.

It’s almost been a year since I launched, and my circle is noticeably smaller. Many people I thought I was close with haven’t reached out for nearly 6 months.

When you find your purpose and your passion, it’s an incredible feeling. Hopefully people support you.

Not everyone will. And that’s ok.

It’s painful seeing so many relationships fade away. It hurts knowing they don’t see the value in me now that I’m “officially” disabled.

As painful as it is, it’s also a perfect example of why I became an advocate. Ableism is a huge problem. Being disabled can be incredibly lonely. I wanted to give a voice to those who haven’t yet found theirs.

In the process I’ve met incredible people from all over the world who inspire me to keep going. Who give me a reason to write every day. Who remind me of the compassion, love and goodness that’s still out there.

Thank you to each and every one of you. I couldn’t do this alone.

My latest looks at the reasons we hide, and what would happen if we all decided to stop hiding and show the world the realities of chronic illness:

disabledginger.com/p/why-are-c

The Disabled Ginger · Why Are Chronically Ill People Forced to Hide Their Pain?By Broadwaybabyto
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There's a sort of adrenal balance and that's all out of whack for me now. This is a better problem to have than the problems before I moved. Like when I'm resting, it's hard to find media that can hold my interest. Horror and cult docus are *too* exciting, and nothing else is exciting enough. I still trend towards the darker stuff (I'm watching someone do a Disco Elysium lets play right now), which keeps me in a darker headspace, but the happy unicorn pony shit just feels... empty. I haven't been able to watch a straight-up comedy that isn't gallows humor in many years, because it's supposed to be funny but I don't feel like laughing. I don't really have a video "genre" right now, games besides idle games are still out of reach and idle games have gotten boring. I start a lot of stuff and then stop it, which it's great that I can finally be spontaneous now and try things at random, but my morale takes a hit after I've skipped a couple of videos or shows. I'm doing much better at reading when I do have energy, but when I'm so tired like that, I know I won't get more than a page or two.

So rest is unfulfilling, too.

There's probably some element here we might call "depression." I don't really feel hopeless, just tired, which makes me unable to hold interest in a whole lot.

I blamed it on cognitive drain from the taxes push last week and figured it would pass by now. It will surely pass as all things do, but it's getting old.

#DarkSojourn
#Recovery2025
#MECFS