It's so weird, every match I got on dating apps over the past few years can only talk about themselves, and rarely seem interested in me! It's endemic! I don't remember it being like this at all when I was young (~25-20 years ago)!
I wonder..
- maybe people become more self centered as they age?
- maybe it's a cultural thing because we became more individualist?
- maybe the self centered people stay single because nobody likes them?
- maybe it's always been like this but I just never noticed when I was younger?
I'd like to hear other people who did online dating ~20 years ago if they have insights on this; is it just me, or is this really a thing?