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Meine Namensänderung wurde heute vom Geburtstandesamt bestätigt 🥰 Ich kann also finally allen Bescheid geben, und werde bald überall mit meinem richtigen Namen angesprochen 😍

To do also, in ungefähr dieser Reihenfolge:
- Geburtsurkunde erhalten
- Perso ändern lassen
- Führerschein
- Krankenkasse
- Rentenversicherungen
- alle möglichen Versicherungen
- Finanzamt?
- Anwältin
- Bank
- Uni
- Vermieter
- ... ?

Irgendwas, was ich nicht vergessen darf, hat jemensch schon Erfahrung? Und habt ihr tatsächlich alte Zeugnisse umschreiben lassen? Wenn ja, welche?

I used to catch cold approximately three times a year. Like clockwork, once in the fall, another one in the spring, once during a vacation. This has changed in the recent years.

It started with my therapy and has progressed as I understood I'm a non-binary autistic person. I've carved a way more fitting life for myself even though the changes have been relatively small. I feel 100% more free.

It's not that I don't work properly. In fact, I work more than I used to. What has changed is that as I can now read myself much better, I can make adjustments as I go to facilitate my well-being. I've learned to regulate my tasks. Now I also take a short fall vacation and another vacation during spring. This all has lead to me being healthier.

I suspect my colds have mostly been my body's way of pushing the break pedal. Furthermore, I suspect I've had autistic burnouts but haven't just understood it.

#ActuallyAutistic #NonBinary @actuallyautistic

⚠️ Content Note: Unfiltered skin. Legs. Feet. Bare soles. Viewer discretion advised – or encouraged. :blobcatuwu:

First day this year going fully legwear-free... no tights, no nylons, no mesh, no nothin’. Just skin.

Breaking dress codes since three years now and still not fired. Yet. 😜

Today’s look: comfy top, slit skirt with views, and all the barefoot power I can legally bring into the office.

The air may be conditioned, but the vibe is anything but! :valid:

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More quotes via bbc.com/news/articles/cn9vr4vj

The OfS criticised the university's policy statement on Trans and Non-Binary equality, saying its requirement to "positively represent trans people" and an assertion that "transphobic propaganda [would] not be tolerated" could lead staff and students to "self-censor".

Education Secretary Bridget Phillipson said “If you go to university you must be prepared to … be exposed to uncomfortable truths.”

What absolute crap. Transphobia isn’t an “uncomfortable truth”, it’s punching down at a tiny vulnerable group who just want to exist.

The modern architecture of a University of Sussex campus building before term starts
www.bbc.comSussex university fined £585,000 in transgender free speech rowThe university is fined by the higher education regulator for failing to uphold freedom of speech.

#Trump's #TransgenderRights rollbacks prompt allies to adjust travel warnings

by Avery Lotz, March 23, 2025

"Several European countries have adjusted travel guidelines for citizens seeking to enter the U.S. as the Trump administration has implemented several rollbacks on #transgender rights.

"The big picture: #Finland, #Denmark and #Germany urged cautionary planning for #trans and #nonbinary travelers seeking to enter the U.S. following an executive order requiring the federal government to recognize only two sexes: male and female.

- The advisory changes come as citizens from several European countries and beyond have been detained by U.S. immigration authorities over issues with travel visas.

[...]

"The Trump administration has made rolling back rights for transgender Americans a key priority of its early days in office, targeting military service, gender-affirming care, sports participation, federal recognition and other aspects of everyday life.

- References to trans Americans — and other minority groups — have been wiped across federal websites.
- However, many of the administration's measures have hit legal barriers in court."

Read more:
axios.com/2025/03/23/allies-is
#TransRightsAreHumanRights #HumanRightsViolations #Fascism #CharacteristicsOfFascism #Authoritarianism #GenderFascism

A British Airways plane is in the air as it lands at San Francisco International Airport.
Axios · Trump's transgender rights rollbacks prompt allies to adjust travel warningsBy Avery Lotz

🚨 MUTUAL AID POST 100/675 🚨

update on my electric, I called them yesterday morning and they said they won't disconnect us yet and I can start a payment plan on the 28th, but I still need $675 for the down payment

I'm at $100 now

if you can spare anything please help 🙏

boost for visibility 🚀

thanks so much y'all ❤️

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I feel I need a masculine name, or at least a gender neutral one, but, just like every other time I've thought about it in my life I get a sort of analysis paralysis and can't think of anything I like without thinking of some reason its cringe or stupid or something. So silly. Dunno how to get around it.

Brain needs to quit that shit.

A colleague that I trust sent me this & thought I would share. I have no connection to the research, but will agree with the introduction that enby stuff is still under researched even as we have seen great growth in other gender related studies

Nikki DiGregorio (Towson University), is conducting a study to understand the experiences of people who have a non-binary family member by completing an online survey (with a $10 incentive).

Survey Link: towson.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/f

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